Working full time in an America ER again has brought to light a glaring difference from my work in Haiti last year. I was actually surprised at some of the things I've seen in the US that I thought were mainly in the third-world-- this fall, there's been scabies, lice, and even a case of malaria (that patient was from India and had recently moved to the US-- no worries, no outbreak of malaria that I know of in SC! :). I saw a few things in Haiti that surprised me, like type 2 diabetes. But by far the most prominent difference is the number of suicidal patients that I've seen. Haiti= 0. US= 4-5 per ER shift.
In Haiti, I knew several stories of attempted homicide in our small town-- usually from vindictive wives or family feuds. The method of choice tended to be poison from the jilted spouses or machetes for settling family vendettas. But I never saw a patient who was suicidal. Never.
In the US, sadly, I know of several stories in our small town of people who have committed suicide, and I see these patients with their eyes full of despair daily in my line of work. Yet, I do not personally know of anyone who has been murdered. Not one.
What is the difference?
In a country where people struggle daily to eek out a living and provide food for their families, does the very struggle to survive give people in Haiti purpose and hope? Does it give them a will to live? Is it the fact that they have family and loved ones to provide for that urges them to keep living daily? With such high infant mortality rates and low life expectancy, has death become such an accepted part of their life view that they savor their short time on earth while it lasts? Is there a stronger sense of faith and belief that there is more to life than what is seen that makes life worth living?
I don't know, but I wonder. Perhaps those issues are what drive well-fed, well-educated Americans to contemplate suicide.
Do many Americans lack purpose and hope? As we as a society get further away from manual labor to survive (growing our own food because we have to, or our income directly linked to what produce we can see in an outdoor market), I wonder if we tend to feel like our job is less vital, both to society in general and our family in particular. Do we feel less fulfilled in our paper-pushing jobs?
Is lack of strong family ties a factor? Perhaps in our increasingly isolated society, we have lost the strong sense of family (all 9 family members under one roof) that Haitians have. As we log more hours on facebook, twitter, and in front of the TV, have we lost our sense of flesh and blood community and connection?
Have we lost our view of God as a nation? Does the commonly accepted view that when we die we just disappear and cease from our struggles lure people to just end it all?
I dunno. I know that I don't have all the answers or understand all the reasons for homicide or suicide. But I do know that there is Hope. There is Love. There is Purpose and Life.
I believe the God of the universe created all things and has a purpose for each life. He has a Reason for creating each life and placing each one in his unique sphere of influence, both for work and in a family. I think that living in community, with your family and in a local Body of Christ (the church), fills the need for connecting that is in each of us. I believe that there is more to life than this one that we see. There is eternity after the end of this life, and it can be spent in ceaseless union with God through His Son's sacrifice on the cross. And because Jesus Christ rose from the dead and lives today, He is Life and can fill each of our days with Life.
Mother Teresa once said that there is more hunger for love and appreciate in this world than for bread. Please think of those you come across today-- the man who bags your groceries, the lady at your bank, your coworker at the desk next to you-- and consider their need for purpose and appreciation. Would your smile maybe share some hope with them? Could your compliment remind them that they are appreciated? Would it maybe open the door to share the love of Christ with them or lead to opportunities to talk about purpose? Could it maybe make a difference in their lives? Could we collectively decrease the suicide rate in the US?
I saw a lot of hunger in Haiti, and I knew many people who only eat once or twice a day. I think hunger is just as prevalent in the US, only in a much different form. Please consider sharing Love and Hope with the people that you see today; you may not know who is starving today.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Happy Belated Halloween!
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Marriage on a Budget
Hi, friends! David and I have been working on a new website called marriageonabudget.com and we're inviting you to come take a peek! We've realized that some of our ideas for budgeting and dates are a little unusual... okay, maybe even a little weird, but we've had a lot of fun, and wanted to share some of the ideas with you! Every Monday there's a post on money, every Wed. a date idea for the weekend, and Fridays have a fun assortment of ideas for marriage, family, and fun on a budget.
Hope to see you there!
Hope to see you there!
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Celebrate!
A friend of mine is reading through the Bible in a year and writing great devo's for parents along the way! While the parenting part does not apply to me, I love reading her stuff and have been super blessed and challenged by her observations. Last week, she wrote about the importance of celebrating your kids at: http://mom365word.blogspot.com/2011/10/genesis-21-23.html
I know she's doing an awesome job celebrating her kiddos, and her mom always did an amazing job of celebrating things in their family. I was over at their house a lot growing up, and some of my favorite memories with them involve funfetti cake to celebrate different life events (like my Feb. birthday in July because I lived abroad that year or cheesecake for getting an A on an exam).
Well, I read the neatest verses today. God's throwing a party, and you're invited!!! How great is that?!
So I answered, "I'm coming.
I read in your letter what you wrote about me,
And I'm coming to the party
you're throwing for me."
That's when God's Word entered my life,
became part of my very being.
~Psalm 40:7-8, The Message
I love how by accepting God's invitation to Heaven through His Son Jesus it is what allows God's Word to enter into our lives and become a part of our very being. And through that, Heaven and celebration become fused into our cells. God's joy and hope and parties sink into the core of who we are and flow out of us. He is our Father who celebrates that we are His, both in this life and in the one to come. Isn't it neat that God wants to make us party people? :)
I know she's doing an awesome job celebrating her kiddos, and her mom always did an amazing job of celebrating things in their family. I was over at their house a lot growing up, and some of my favorite memories with them involve funfetti cake to celebrate different life events (like my Feb. birthday in July because I lived abroad that year or cheesecake for getting an A on an exam).
Well, I read the neatest verses today. God's throwing a party, and you're invited!!! How great is that?!
So I answered, "I'm coming.
I read in your letter what you wrote about me,
And I'm coming to the party
you're throwing for me."
That's when God's Word entered my life,
became part of my very being.
~Psalm 40:7-8, The Message
I love how by accepting God's invitation to Heaven through His Son Jesus it is what allows God's Word to enter into our lives and become a part of our very being. And through that, Heaven and celebration become fused into our cells. God's joy and hope and parties sink into the core of who we are and flow out of us. He is our Father who celebrates that we are His, both in this life and in the one to come. Isn't it neat that God wants to make us party people? :)
Monday, October 24, 2011
Our Weekend Project
Here's how we spent our weekend... Putting in laminate flooring in our townhouse (and learning how to do it as we went along!).
Here's the living room before the Lowes got to it:
Ewww... dirty carpet...
Now you see it, now you don't! The carpet's gone:
On to the vapor barrier...
And a little cleaning up in the middle:
And the finished product-- Ta-Da!
Even the sun came out to see it! And then we got $75 massages that we only paid $30 for (I <3 living social deals!!! :).
Hope that you had a great weekend too!
Here's the living room before the Lowes got to it:
Now you see it, now you don't! The carpet's gone:
Hope that you had a great weekend too!
Friday, October 21, 2011
InQuickER = scariER
I recently noticed an intriguing button on the side bar of my facebook page. "Need an MD360?" it reads, "Wait at home – save your place online for your visit to XYZ urgent care center."
My interest piqued (and my medical mind horrified), I clicked on the link. It seems that now in some places you can pay a $25 fee and RESERVE your place in the waiting room of a local urgent care center or ER.The system is called InQuicker. When your reserved time comes up, you will be seen within 15 minutes.
I can see how this would appeal to patients. My future patient's sick with the flu, he knows he'd love to be seen and have someone write him for some cough medicine (and probably a work excuse), and he'd rather wait at home in bed than in a crowded ER waiting room. It's nice that this person isn't spreading their contagious disease as much, but is it really the best system?
I can totally see the draw for moms with small kids, or people who have trouble getting around, or the elderly who need to arrange for transportation anyways.
But isn't the Emergency Room for Emergencies? And if you have an Emergency, shouldn't you be seen as soon as possible, not just when you think you might be ready to be seen?
Like a patient I know of who had an abdominal aortic aneurysm that ruptured while she was seen in the ER who had a 4 day history of constipation, abdominal pain, and back pain? I'm so glad that she didn't reserve her ER visit time for tomorrow night at 9pm!!
Or what about the young guy with cold symptoms that started in the morning, then progress to confusion, petechiae, and altered mental status by that evening? What if he just thought it was a cold and he'll check in for 7am the next day? That's a meningitis that might get missed.
Or I could tell you about many elderly patients who just have a "little headache" or a "little pain," and end up with some very serious conditions. It's scary to think about them waiting to be seen.
It's scary to think that you could plan out your emergency. If you're planning something, wouldn't it be good to plan a visit to the family doctor? Aren't appointments what one does to see the primary care doc? ER visits shouldn't be planned out. They're for Emergencies.
I think InQuicker is a scary solution to shorten ER wait times. I think it has the potential to result in some really bad and scary patient outcomes. There's one more thing to be afraid of this Halloween!
My interest piqued (and my medical mind horrified), I clicked on the link. It seems that now in some places you can pay a $25 fee and RESERVE your place in the waiting room of a local urgent care center or ER.The system is called InQuicker. When your reserved time comes up, you will be seen within 15 minutes.
I can see how this would appeal to patients. My future patient's sick with the flu, he knows he'd love to be seen and have someone write him for some cough medicine (and probably a work excuse), and he'd rather wait at home in bed than in a crowded ER waiting room. It's nice that this person isn't spreading their contagious disease as much, but is it really the best system?
I can totally see the draw for moms with small kids, or people who have trouble getting around, or the elderly who need to arrange for transportation anyways.
But isn't the Emergency Room for Emergencies? And if you have an Emergency, shouldn't you be seen as soon as possible, not just when you think you might be ready to be seen?
Like a patient I know of who had an abdominal aortic aneurysm that ruptured while she was seen in the ER who had a 4 day history of constipation, abdominal pain, and back pain? I'm so glad that she didn't reserve her ER visit time for tomorrow night at 9pm!!
Or what about the young guy with cold symptoms that started in the morning, then progress to confusion, petechiae, and altered mental status by that evening? What if he just thought it was a cold and he'll check in for 7am the next day? That's a meningitis that might get missed.
Or I could tell you about many elderly patients who just have a "little headache" or a "little pain," and end up with some very serious conditions. It's scary to think about them waiting to be seen.
It's scary to think that you could plan out your emergency. If you're planning something, wouldn't it be good to plan a visit to the family doctor? Aren't appointments what one does to see the primary care doc? ER visits shouldn't be planned out. They're for Emergencies.
I think InQuicker is a scary solution to shorten ER wait times. I think it has the potential to result in some really bad and scary patient outcomes. There's one more thing to be afraid of this Halloween!
Monday, October 17, 2011
Falling for Fall
I've always disliked fall. Weird, I know. Sad, I know.
Winters always seemed fun to me. There's Christmas (Jesus' birthday, my favorite holiday!) and my b-day (also fun :). There's that crisp feeling in the air, and a good night's sleep as your nose is a lil chilly peeking out of the covers but the rest of you is snuggly warm under them. There's cozy clothes and cups of tea and white hot chocolate. And there's snowboarding and ice skating and... SNOW (if you don't live in the South :).
Then there's spring... with warmth and the scent of flowers dancing in the wind. There's warmer days and more sunshine. There are budding trees and kite-flying days. There are lazy afternoons where you can sprawl out on a porch swing and read for hours. There's the bittersweet contemplation of our Savior's sacrifice and the joyous celebration of His resurrection on Easter.
Then summer comes! When I was in school, summers were the best part of the year! It meant freedom, and playing, and hanging out at the pool. Now it comes with frappacino's and sundresses and high heeled sandals. There's berry picking and pie-baking. It's all around delicious.
Then comes fall. When I was still in school, this time of year marched in accompanied with a huge blanket of dread. There were tests and assignments and demands. The leaves fall off the trees leaving them barren and spike-y.
But with each passing year that I've been out of school, I fall a little more for FALL. There's pumpkin spice lattes and yummy pumpkin treats. There are funny fall festivals (the Pumpkintown Festival in Pumpkintown, SC, is a classic one!) and crazy corn mazes. God paints the trees glorious colors.
What's your favorite part of fall? I'm looking for more ways to fall for fall this year!
Winters always seemed fun to me. There's Christmas (Jesus' birthday, my favorite holiday!) and my b-day (also fun :). There's that crisp feeling in the air, and a good night's sleep as your nose is a lil chilly peeking out of the covers but the rest of you is snuggly warm under them. There's cozy clothes and cups of tea and white hot chocolate. And there's snowboarding and ice skating and... SNOW (if you don't live in the South :).
Then there's spring... with warmth and the scent of flowers dancing in the wind. There's warmer days and more sunshine. There are budding trees and kite-flying days. There are lazy afternoons where you can sprawl out on a porch swing and read for hours. There's the bittersweet contemplation of our Savior's sacrifice and the joyous celebration of His resurrection on Easter.
Then summer comes! When I was in school, summers were the best part of the year! It meant freedom, and playing, and hanging out at the pool. Now it comes with frappacino's and sundresses and high heeled sandals. There's berry picking and pie-baking. It's all around delicious.
Then comes fall. When I was still in school, this time of year marched in accompanied with a huge blanket of dread. There were tests and assignments and demands. The leaves fall off the trees leaving them barren and spike-y.
But with each passing year that I've been out of school, I fall a little more for FALL. There's pumpkin spice lattes and yummy pumpkin treats. There are funny fall festivals (the Pumpkintown Festival in Pumpkintown, SC, is a classic one!) and crazy corn mazes. God paints the trees glorious colors.
What's your favorite part of fall? I'm looking for more ways to fall for fall this year!
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Update on Ezai's Surgery
I just got this awesome email from the director of Ezai's orphanage (Ezai is Isaac in English). Please pray that he has a speedy recovery and no post-op complications!
Letting you know that God's timing is perfect and Isaac just got his corrective surgery on his foot deformity this afternoon. His foot deformity limited his mobility to hopping on one foot or placing his full weight on the top of his toes. This surgery will hopefully have him be able to walk on it flat. Isaac's JOY is in our God of color and has been released from post op and resigning for now curled up at the moment on a cot in my room till the pain and slight fever goes down. He was such a trooper even through the pain. Please join the NWHCM Family as we lift up precious Isaac as he is heading into a good stretch of recovery. Thank you. .God is BIG. Our Sovereign God is holding Isaac tight. God is good! Thank you for trusting us with this precious cargo. He is LOVED!
Letting you know that God's timing is perfect and Isaac just got his corrective surgery on his foot deformity this afternoon. His foot deformity limited his mobility to hopping on one foot or placing his full weight on the top of his toes. This surgery will hopefully have him be able to walk on it flat. Isaac's JOY is in our God of color and has been released from post op and resigning for now curled up at the moment on a cot in my room till the pain and slight fever goes down. He was such a trooper even through the pain. Please join the NWHCM Family as we lift up precious Isaac as he is heading into a good stretch of recovery. Thank you. .God is BIG. Our Sovereign God is holding Isaac tight. God is good! Thank you for trusting us with this precious cargo. He is LOVED!
Update on Ezai
I am so excited to share this with you!!! I just got an update on Ezai, one of my sweet orphans from Haiti who has cerebral palsy (CP) and went from living in the town's House of Poverty to an awesome facility in northern Haiti specially designed for kids with special needs. This time last year, I had the amazing privilege of transporting him to his new home (for more on the original story, check out my Haiti blog for the story and the trip to his new home).
Ezai is doing GREAT! He's in school and still as smilely as ever. :)
And now he's going to walk, too.
Ezai is crippled from CP. His left hand is curled up, and his left foot and ankle are contracted in such a way that it looks like he's wearing permanent 6-inch high heels. Since he cannot flex his left foot or relax his ankle, he hops to get around. Have you ever seen Veggie Tales? The best way to describe his gait is to compare it to the hopping of Bob and Larry. Cute for little singing veggies; heart-breaking for a 15 year old.
And that's about to change.
The update from Ezai's new home is that there is an orthopedic surgeon who wants to operate on Ezai's left leg. He believes he can help reduce the pain and increase his mobility! YAY!!!!! I am amazed by God's plan and so excited for my friend.
Wouldn't it be awesome to see this smiling face WALKING towards you? :)
Ezai is doing GREAT! He's in school and still as smilely as ever. :)
And now he's going to walk, too.
Ezai is crippled from CP. His left hand is curled up, and his left foot and ankle are contracted in such a way that it looks like he's wearing permanent 6-inch high heels. Since he cannot flex his left foot or relax his ankle, he hops to get around. Have you ever seen Veggie Tales? The best way to describe his gait is to compare it to the hopping of Bob and Larry. Cute for little singing veggies; heart-breaking for a 15 year old.
And that's about to change.
The update from Ezai's new home is that there is an orthopedic surgeon who wants to operate on Ezai's left leg. He believes he can help reduce the pain and increase his mobility! YAY!!!!! I am amazed by God's plan and so excited for my friend.
Wouldn't it be awesome to see this smiling face WALKING towards you? :)
Friday, October 7, 2011
Great Living Social Deal!
Hi, friends!
Just a quick post especially for my friends in the Upstate!
Living social has lots of fun deals on stuff going on in your area, and the one from yesterday for the upstate is for one of our favorite restaurants! Yum!
It's a spend $10, get $20 at Brioso's. Brioso's is a delicious pasta restaurant that makes their pasta fresh daily. We especially love their lobster pasta with lobster sauce, and it's only around $10/person. De-lish! The Clemson Campus Special coupon book (I think it's on campusspecial.com too but I haven't checked yet) has a buy one entree, get one free coupon, so this living social deal plus coupon makes it $2.50/person/entree. I'm not sure if I can use the coupon, but either way it's still a great deal. Yay!!! We are some happy Lowes. :)
Here's the link to the deal below, and if 3 of your friends buy it, it's free for you!
http://livingsocial.com/deals/133617
Just a quick post especially for my friends in the Upstate!
Living social has lots of fun deals on stuff going on in your area, and the one from yesterday for the upstate is for one of our favorite restaurants! Yum!
It's a spend $10, get $20 at Brioso's. Brioso's is a delicious pasta restaurant that makes their pasta fresh daily. We especially love their lobster pasta with lobster sauce, and it's only around $10/person. De-lish! The Clemson Campus Special coupon book (I think it's on campusspecial.com too but I haven't checked yet) has a buy one entree, get one free coupon, so this living social deal plus coupon makes it $2.50/person/entree. I'm not sure if I can use the coupon, but either way it's still a great deal. Yay!!! We are some happy Lowes. :)
Here's the link to the deal below, and if 3 of your friends buy it, it's free for you!
http://livingsocial.com/deals/133617
Thursday, October 6, 2011
"If You Had One Million Dollars, What Would You Do?"
That question messed Joe Sangl up. He went on to create the financial coaching ministry at NewSpring Church. The question for him was not just considered in terms of what awesome vacations could he take or how tricked out could he make his house, but it became a musing of what he would do if money was no object or impediment. What was he put on this earth to do?
If you had a million dollars, what would you do? What were you put on this earth to do?
Exciting, isn't it? With money being no object or impediment, why, you could do anything! Why, you could even do exactly whatever it was you've been put on this planet to do!
Those questions have kinda messed us up, too. We're getting involved with the financial counseling ministry at our awesome church, NewSpring, and are reading Joe's book I Was Broke. Now I'm Not. And we're revisiting our budget. And we're asking ourselves these questions.
We started out our financial journey together reading The Total Money Makeover, by Dave Ramsey. It was a really good start to give us common definitions of terms to talk about our finances together, and it's a good, solid plan for healthy finances. We were both raised in families that are conservative financially, so it was a good review for us. Heehee, and we got it from the library, so we read it for free. :) Dave would be proud, right? We made a budget (David found an awesome excel sheet), and we were just living on David's stipend at the time, so I pinched pennies and started couponing! I fell in love with www.fru-gal.com, southersavers.com, and savingfreak.com.
Then we read Rich Dad Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki, which was cool because it gave us a very different perspective on money, spending, and saving (it also came from the library :). Before this book, I never really thought about who owned large businesses. I guess I always figured "The Man" owned it or something. But after this book, I realized it's people who own businesses, like real people, and it made some things seem much for achievable. Also, we started to think about possibilities for investments and passive income to get out of the "rat race," which he defines as when your passive income exceeds your living expenses. When you do that, you have more freedom to choose if you want to stay at your current job, or, if you will, allows you to do what you were put on this earth to do with money being no object or impediment.
Then we read The Blessed Life, by Robert Morris, which we absolutely LOVED. Pastor Morris spoke at our church in May, and we were so blessed by it!! It totally changed how we looked at giving, and we've been challenged by God to give at a different level than we were before. We have seen His faithfulness through that and seen how He's knitted our hearts together to give as a couple. It's so FUN to give when God tells you to, and fun how it's just a little way to show Him how thankful we are for all that Jesus has done for us on the cross. It's not about the amount you give, it's about your heart and your obedience.
I also read a book called Think Like a Billionaire, Become a Billionaire. It's not really my favorite book nor my favorite theology (I jokingly referred to it to David as the "God wants you to be a billionaire" book), and not even available on amazon anymore, but it did spark big dreams in me. The beginning talks about what if you could meet huge needs, needs like a million Bibles for India or if your tithe was $100,000 (cuz your paycheck was $1 million, crazy, right? :). It just sparked a desire for us to dream of giving big. We would love to send a Costa Rican pastor and his family on their first vacation in 6 years. We would love to give $1 million to start a university on LaGonave, Haiti. We would love to buy the new missions base for Jerry and Carmen in Romania (my bro and his wife, check out Project 600).
Now we're getting trained to coach at NewSpring (I <3 my church!! such great messages and great people! we love getting involved, and you can watch sermons online). We had our first "appointment" this past Sunday, where we observed a couple with years of experience as they coached another couple with their finances. It was neat to watch the couple have their worry and angst transformed into hope and joy at the prospect of paying off 3 debts completely within 6 months and the other 2 in the next 2.8 years! All this with Christmas and vacations and fun things still planned into their budget! We're so excited to be a part of this ministry and to help people be financially free! O, and it's all FREE! :) If you live in Anderson or Greenville and you're interested, I totally urge you to go! It's also in a couple of other locations in SC through NewSpring.
We're excited to encourage people to do exactly what they were put on this earth to do. Joe Sangl is on a crusade to help people be financially free so they can do just that. His website is I Was Broke. Now I'm Not. and has lots of free resources.
We're excited to see what God's put us on this earth to do. :) We're still praying about it and seeking guidance for each step. We're asking God to show us how to give and how to budget. We'd really like to send that pastor on vacation, and fund those missions projects. We'd like for me to have the option of being a stay at home momma (don't get excited yet, that's a ways off in the future hopefully :). We'd love to have the option for David to work with a non-profit if that's where God leads us. We'd love to have a beach house to host missionaries and to have a revolving door policy there and invite all of you anytime. :) If we had a million dollars. If money were no object or impediment.
If you had a million dollars, what would you do? What were you put on this earth to do?
If you had a million dollars, what would you do? What were you put on this earth to do?
Exciting, isn't it? With money being no object or impediment, why, you could do anything! Why, you could even do exactly whatever it was you've been put on this planet to do!
Those questions have kinda messed us up, too. We're getting involved with the financial counseling ministry at our awesome church, NewSpring, and are reading Joe's book I Was Broke. Now I'm Not. And we're revisiting our budget. And we're asking ourselves these questions.
We started out our financial journey together reading The Total Money Makeover, by Dave Ramsey. It was a really good start to give us common definitions of terms to talk about our finances together, and it's a good, solid plan for healthy finances. We were both raised in families that are conservative financially, so it was a good review for us. Heehee, and we got it from the library, so we read it for free. :) Dave would be proud, right? We made a budget (David found an awesome excel sheet), and we were just living on David's stipend at the time, so I pinched pennies and started couponing! I fell in love with www.fru-gal.com, southersavers.com, and savingfreak.com.
Then we read Rich Dad Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki, which was cool because it gave us a very different perspective on money, spending, and saving (it also came from the library :). Before this book, I never really thought about who owned large businesses. I guess I always figured "The Man" owned it or something. But after this book, I realized it's people who own businesses, like real people, and it made some things seem much for achievable. Also, we started to think about possibilities for investments and passive income to get out of the "rat race," which he defines as when your passive income exceeds your living expenses. When you do that, you have more freedom to choose if you want to stay at your current job, or, if you will, allows you to do what you were put on this earth to do with money being no object or impediment.
Then we read The Blessed Life, by Robert Morris, which we absolutely LOVED. Pastor Morris spoke at our church in May, and we were so blessed by it!! It totally changed how we looked at giving, and we've been challenged by God to give at a different level than we were before. We have seen His faithfulness through that and seen how He's knitted our hearts together to give as a couple. It's so FUN to give when God tells you to, and fun how it's just a little way to show Him how thankful we are for all that Jesus has done for us on the cross. It's not about the amount you give, it's about your heart and your obedience.
I also read a book called Think Like a Billionaire, Become a Billionaire. It's not really my favorite book nor my favorite theology (I jokingly referred to it to David as the "God wants you to be a billionaire" book), and not even available on amazon anymore, but it did spark big dreams in me. The beginning talks about what if you could meet huge needs, needs like a million Bibles for India or if your tithe was $100,000 (cuz your paycheck was $1 million, crazy, right? :). It just sparked a desire for us to dream of giving big. We would love to send a Costa Rican pastor and his family on their first vacation in 6 years. We would love to give $1 million to start a university on LaGonave, Haiti. We would love to buy the new missions base for Jerry and Carmen in Romania (my bro and his wife, check out Project 600).
Now we're getting trained to coach at NewSpring (I <3 my church!! such great messages and great people! we love getting involved, and you can watch sermons online). We had our first "appointment" this past Sunday, where we observed a couple with years of experience as they coached another couple with their finances. It was neat to watch the couple have their worry and angst transformed into hope and joy at the prospect of paying off 3 debts completely within 6 months and the other 2 in the next 2.8 years! All this with Christmas and vacations and fun things still planned into their budget! We're so excited to be a part of this ministry and to help people be financially free! O, and it's all FREE! :) If you live in Anderson or Greenville and you're interested, I totally urge you to go! It's also in a couple of other locations in SC through NewSpring.
We're excited to encourage people to do exactly what they were put on this earth to do. Joe Sangl is on a crusade to help people be financially free so they can do just that. His website is I Was Broke. Now I'm Not. and has lots of free resources.
We're excited to see what God's put us on this earth to do. :) We're still praying about it and seeking guidance for each step. We're asking God to show us how to give and how to budget. We'd really like to send that pastor on vacation, and fund those missions projects. We'd like for me to have the option of being a stay at home momma (don't get excited yet, that's a ways off in the future hopefully :). We'd love to have the option for David to work with a non-profit if that's where God leads us. We'd love to have a beach house to host missionaries and to have a revolving door policy there and invite all of you anytime. :) If we had a million dollars. If money were no object or impediment.
If you had a million dollars, what would you do? What were you put on this earth to do?
The Plan
I've always kinda had a plan. When I was in middle school, I knew I was going to college. I had no idea what I might study, but I knew I needed to go. In college, I knew I was going to grad school, again initially with no clue what I would study. When I started grad school, I knew I wanted to work in an ER. When I was working at a local ER, I knew God was calling me to Haiti for a year. During that year in Haiti, God showed me who and when to marry. Awesome! :)
All the years leading up to this one, this first year of being married to my awesome hubby, I never had plans for beyond getting married. There was nothing I had felt compelled to do (except for going to Italy and the Geneva Lindy Exchange, but that plan's in the works :), like all those other years. In one sense, it's weird for the first time in my life to not have a plan. In another sense, it's thrilling and exciting to look back and see how God gave clear direction and work to do during those years and how He's waiting to give us our next directions together as a couple.
Which brings me to the question we've been pondering... What's the plan now? What were we put on this earth to do? We want to make Jesus smile. We want His Kingdom to be first, for us to be fruitful branches and encourage others to know Him, love Him, and serve Him, He who is Love and loved us while we were sinners separated from Him. We want to start a family. We want to encourage missionaries. We want to look like our Father. (we'd also like a beach house where said missionaries can come relax :)
But what does that look like for us on a daily basis? I feel like sometimes it was clearer on the "mission field," when I lived in Haiti. There, I loved on orphans, helped deliver food and clothes to widows and orphans, had a Bible study with orphan girls, and offered medical care to the destitute and refugees. It meant lost sleep praying for a baby not to die, lost weight with typhoid and malaria, and a lost heart when saying goodbye to Poor House friends.
In America, I'm not even sure I know any orphans. The only widows I know are sweet older ladies from church.
While we love international missions and look forward to investing in friends and other Kingdom workers overseas, we both feel very strongly that we are stationed States-side right now. And this is a great "mission field" (I heard the Great Comission explained once as not "go and make disciples" but rather "in your goings, make disciples"-- wherever you are, you can make disciples!). So, what does life look like for us here?
We're still figuring out what the Lord's plan for us is as a couple. My new job became available right after I started praying that God would give me a job with opportunities to share His love. Within a week, I was offered my new job in an ER, and with it came an opportunity to encourage a suicidal pastor patient and speak Creole to 3 patients, 2 of whom are from the town I lived in while in Haiti (how random and how like God :).
We have some crazy college student neighbors... maybe they're part of the plan. Maybe my young patient who accidentally killed someone is part of plan. Maybe our involvement with financial coaching at our church (more to come in another post-- we're super excited) is part of the plan. Maybe sharing a Blessing Bag (thanks, Kelly!) with the homeless man I pass every day on my way to work is part of the plan.
Part of the Plan to share His love and offer of abundant and eternal life with the world.
Not such a bad plan to have. :)
All the years leading up to this one, this first year of being married to my awesome hubby, I never had plans for beyond getting married. There was nothing I had felt compelled to do (except for going to Italy and the Geneva Lindy Exchange, but that plan's in the works :), like all those other years. In one sense, it's weird for the first time in my life to not have a plan. In another sense, it's thrilling and exciting to look back and see how God gave clear direction and work to do during those years and how He's waiting to give us our next directions together as a couple.
Which brings me to the question we've been pondering... What's the plan now? What were we put on this earth to do? We want to make Jesus smile. We want His Kingdom to be first, for us to be fruitful branches and encourage others to know Him, love Him, and serve Him, He who is Love and loved us while we were sinners separated from Him. We want to start a family. We want to encourage missionaries. We want to look like our Father. (we'd also like a beach house where said missionaries can come relax :)
But what does that look like for us on a daily basis? I feel like sometimes it was clearer on the "mission field," when I lived in Haiti. There, I loved on orphans, helped deliver food and clothes to widows and orphans, had a Bible study with orphan girls, and offered medical care to the destitute and refugees. It meant lost sleep praying for a baby not to die, lost weight with typhoid and malaria, and a lost heart when saying goodbye to Poor House friends.
In America, I'm not even sure I know any orphans. The only widows I know are sweet older ladies from church.
While we love international missions and look forward to investing in friends and other Kingdom workers overseas, we both feel very strongly that we are stationed States-side right now. And this is a great "mission field" (I heard the Great Comission explained once as not "go and make disciples" but rather "in your goings, make disciples"-- wherever you are, you can make disciples!). So, what does life look like for us here?
We're still figuring out what the Lord's plan for us is as a couple. My new job became available right after I started praying that God would give me a job with opportunities to share His love. Within a week, I was offered my new job in an ER, and with it came an opportunity to encourage a suicidal pastor patient and speak Creole to 3 patients, 2 of whom are from the town I lived in while in Haiti (how random and how like God :).
We have some crazy college student neighbors... maybe they're part of the plan. Maybe my young patient who accidentally killed someone is part of plan. Maybe our involvement with financial coaching at our church (more to come in another post-- we're super excited) is part of the plan. Maybe sharing a Blessing Bag (thanks, Kelly!) with the homeless man I pass every day on my way to work is part of the plan.
Part of the Plan to share His love and offer of abundant and eternal life with the world.
Not such a bad plan to have. :)
Oktoberfest in a Crockpot
... minus the beer. :) This is my easy, crockpot tribute to Oktoberfest! Makes a great, easy fall dinner that even my hubby who doesn't like cabbage enjoys!
Sausage with Cabbage and Potatoes
2-3 large baking potatoes
1 Tb. melted butter
Dash of salt and pepper
1/4 tsp. thyme
1/4 of a cabbage, cut into bite-size chunks
4 links smoked sausage (we used Hillshire Farms Sausage with Wisconsin Cheddar-yum!)
3 green onions, sliced thin
2 Tb. maple syrup
1/4 cup water
1 tsp. vinegar (I used rice vinegar since I'm allergic to grapes, but I'm sure white or apple cider vinegar would be awesome too)
Slice potatoes thinly and place at bottom of a crock pot coated with non-stick cooking spray. Drizzle with butter, salt and pepper, and thyme. Arrange cabbage, onions, and sausage on top of potatoes and drizzle with the rest of the ingredients. Turn on high and cook about 3 hours or until potatoes are soft and sausage looks done. Serves 2 very hungry people if made with 3 potatoes. :)
Sausage with Cabbage and Potatoes
2-3 large baking potatoes
1 Tb. melted butter
Dash of salt and pepper
1/4 tsp. thyme
1/4 of a cabbage, cut into bite-size chunks
4 links smoked sausage (we used Hillshire Farms Sausage with Wisconsin Cheddar-yum!)
3 green onions, sliced thin
2 Tb. maple syrup
1/4 cup water
1 tsp. vinegar (I used rice vinegar since I'm allergic to grapes, but I'm sure white or apple cider vinegar would be awesome too)
Slice potatoes thinly and place at bottom of a crock pot coated with non-stick cooking spray. Drizzle with butter, salt and pepper, and thyme. Arrange cabbage, onions, and sausage on top of potatoes and drizzle with the rest of the ingredients. Turn on high and cook about 3 hours or until potatoes are soft and sausage looks done. Serves 2 very hungry people if made with 3 potatoes. :)
Easy Italian Chicken
Easy Italian Chicken
To start with, here's one of my favorite recipes! It's a recipe that I got from a friend years ago and modified slightly. It's also the recipe my mom likes so much that she requested it yesterday when we celebrated her birthday!
1 pound skinless boneless chicken breast, cut into chunks
1/2 cup Italian dressing
1 tsp. Italian seasoning
1/4 cup Parmesan cheese
1/4 cup fresh mozzarella cut in small pieces
4-6 medium potatoes cut into small chunks
Place chicken in crockpot and sprinkle with half of the dressing, spices, and cheeses. Put potatoes in around the chicken and cover with the rest of the dressing, spices, and cheeses. Cook on high for 3 hours stirring occasionally, or on low for 6-8 hours, until everything is cooked. YUM!!! The dressing and cheeses meld together into a delightful covering for everything.
Delicious Green Beans
Delicious Garlic Parmesan Green Beans
Here's a delightful version of green beans that I just made up tonight. Hope you like it too!
1/2 pound frozen green beans
Dash of garlic salt
Dash of dried Parmesan cheese
1 tsp. olive oil
Place ingredients in a small saucepan and cook on medium-high, stirring frequently, until cheese starts to melt and green beans are cooked. Serves 2.
Friday, September 30, 2011
Wonder Dinner
Ever looked into the cupboard, knowing a hungry husband is coming home in less than 20 minutes, and have no idea what's for dinner? Yah, me too! I know we've only been married for 9 months, but I quickly learned that my go-to dinner of singleness (scrambled eggs when I couldn't think of anything else) was not the best offering for my wonderful new spouse.
Earlier this week, I went out for coffee with a friend who introduced me to a super-neat program. It's called E-Mealz, and they've dubbed themselves a "mental maid" to help out with dinners. It's super neat! Their goal is to give you a list of dinners for the week that are on a budget (usually composed of sale items), and then give you a shopping list itemized by which section of the store it's in! Brilliant! You can choose your store, your family size (they have 2 person menus, and family of 5 menus), and specialty menus (gluten free, portion control). And all this for less than $1.25/week! Heehee, and I found an online coupon (use the coupon "Dave") and got 2 weeks free. :)
What a wonderful idea! It's fun to have new ideas for inexpensive dinners, and it's also fun to save time by having my menu planned and saving time in the store with my shopping list itemized! Right now, I've picked the Walmart plan for 2, but I think I might switch to the Aldi's one (it's the cheapest, usually <$35/wk in groceries) or the Publix one (the sample recipes sound awesome!).
I wish I had found out about this earlier. This spring, we were on an especially tight budget, and it's nice now to have more things to rotate into the dinner menu beyond chili dogs. :) You can also give gift certificates, like to young couples or busy moms. Also, the creators have a passion for families having dinner together and for saving money. Yay!
If you're interested, here's the link:
E-MEALZ Easy Meals for Busy and Frugal Families
I've been using the website southernsavers.com, which I love for finding the good deals of the week, and I'm excited to have another tool in my budgeting bag! Hope it blesses you too, and that you have a wonderful family dinner tonight! Gotta run, my e-mealz dinner is ready! :)
Earlier this week, I went out for coffee with a friend who introduced me to a super-neat program. It's called E-Mealz, and they've dubbed themselves a "mental maid" to help out with dinners. It's super neat! Their goal is to give you a list of dinners for the week that are on a budget (usually composed of sale items), and then give you a shopping list itemized by which section of the store it's in! Brilliant! You can choose your store, your family size (they have 2 person menus, and family of 5 menus), and specialty menus (gluten free, portion control). And all this for less than $1.25/week! Heehee, and I found an online coupon (use the coupon "Dave") and got 2 weeks free. :)
What a wonderful idea! It's fun to have new ideas for inexpensive dinners, and it's also fun to save time by having my menu planned and saving time in the store with my shopping list itemized! Right now, I've picked the Walmart plan for 2, but I think I might switch to the Aldi's one (it's the cheapest, usually <$35/wk in groceries) or the Publix one (the sample recipes sound awesome!).
I wish I had found out about this earlier. This spring, we were on an especially tight budget, and it's nice now to have more things to rotate into the dinner menu beyond chili dogs. :) You can also give gift certificates, like to young couples or busy moms. Also, the creators have a passion for families having dinner together and for saving money. Yay!
If you're interested, here's the link:
E-MEALZ Easy Meals for Busy and Frugal Families
I've been using the website southernsavers.com, which I love for finding the good deals of the week, and I'm excited to have another tool in my budgeting bag! Hope it blesses you too, and that you have a wonderful family dinner tonight! Gotta run, my e-mealz dinner is ready! :)
Thursday, September 29, 2011
A Celebration of Starts
To my dear friends,
Hello again! To celebrate my return to blogging, I've found a new blog spot! With all the new (and quite delightful :) changes that this last year has brought, I thought it would be fun to celebrate these new beginnings with a new blog! What changes have occurred, you might wonder? Well, here are the new starts:
The start of our marriage: David and I got married the week before Christmas and are LOVING it!!! I always hoped that married life would be great, but it is even more wonderful that I could have imagined! Perhaps living in different countries for most of last year helps me to simply be delighted that I can see him everyday... Perhaps it's as many people have told me and it's just that we're still newlyweds... Or, perhaps (and this is my favorite theory), that when God is your match-maker, He still uses some of the same prefect wisdom and wonder that He used when He created Eve for Adam. I bet God has a twinkle in His eye right now thinkin' of all the couples that He matched up! :)
The start of our real estate empire: Heehee, okay just kidding. It's not at all an empire, but it is our first rental home. A couple of weeks ago, we closed on a townhouse that someday we'd like to rent out, and we moved out of our detached house and rented it out. I'm SOOOO thankful for the help of our wonderful parents through it all! And I'm so excited to see where this takes us. We both love houses, and real estate and renovations are things that we are both excited to look into together. Anyone wanna move here and rent from us? :) You'll have nice landlords... :)
The start of a new job and grad school: David's getting a master's in Sustainablity and Resilient Infrastructure, and I (first, I learned to remember what David was getting a degree in ;) started a new job this summer in a nearby ER. Things have been kinda hairy at times (err, well, dusty for David as he works with concrete and smashing it for his research, and kinda bloody and crazy for me as I help put people back together in the ER), but we're so thankful to see God's faithful provision for us and how He's showing us where He wants us.
So, you see, we simply needed a new blog to symbolize so many wonderful new starts! Let the celebration (and blogging) begin!
Hello again! To celebrate my return to blogging, I've found a new blog spot! With all the new (and quite delightful :) changes that this last year has brought, I thought it would be fun to celebrate these new beginnings with a new blog! What changes have occurred, you might wonder? Well, here are the new starts:
The start of our marriage: David and I got married the week before Christmas and are LOVING it!!! I always hoped that married life would be great, but it is even more wonderful that I could have imagined! Perhaps living in different countries for most of last year helps me to simply be delighted that I can see him everyday... Perhaps it's as many people have told me and it's just that we're still newlyweds... Or, perhaps (and this is my favorite theory), that when God is your match-maker, He still uses some of the same prefect wisdom and wonder that He used when He created Eve for Adam. I bet God has a twinkle in His eye right now thinkin' of all the couples that He matched up! :)
The start of our real estate empire: Heehee, okay just kidding. It's not at all an empire, but it is our first rental home. A couple of weeks ago, we closed on a townhouse that someday we'd like to rent out, and we moved out of our detached house and rented it out. I'm SOOOO thankful for the help of our wonderful parents through it all! And I'm so excited to see where this takes us. We both love houses, and real estate and renovations are things that we are both excited to look into together. Anyone wanna move here and rent from us? :) You'll have nice landlords... :)
The start of a new job and grad school: David's getting a master's in Sustainablity and Resilient Infrastructure, and I (first, I learned to remember what David was getting a degree in ;) started a new job this summer in a nearby ER. Things have been kinda hairy at times (err, well, dusty for David as he works with concrete and smashing it for his research, and kinda bloody and crazy for me as I help put people back together in the ER), but we're so thankful to see God's faithful provision for us and how He's showing us where He wants us.
So, you see, we simply needed a new blog to symbolize so many wonderful new starts! Let the celebration (and blogging) begin!
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